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GB SAAM
Green Bay Single Adult Activity Ministry

Updated Jan 29, 2010


Green Bay Community Church
gbcommunitychurch.com
600 Cardinal Lane
Green Bay WI 54313
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For GBCC Singles' Connection info call:
(920) 593-3485
E-mail Kim Sechler, Area Pastor

For G.B. S.A.A.M. info call:
Debra Van Asten, GBCC Single's Activities Coordinator
(920) 246-4439
E-mail

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Current Monday Night Singles Discovery Class
Starts Sept 28
Every other week
6:30 - 8:30 PM

2009
Sept 28
Oct 12, 23
Nov 9, 23
Dec 7, 21*
*subject to change

Although not required, buy the book at: Amazon.com
Barnes and Noble

2010


The Dance of Connection by Harriet Lemer, Ph.D.
The Dance of Connection

How to Talk to Someone When You're Mad, Hurt, Scared,
Frustrated, Insulted, Betrayed, or Desperate

Based on the book "The Dance of Connection" by Harriet Lerner

Facilitator: Geri Czarnecki PhD
Attendance history: 80 - 140+

Time: 6:30 - 8:30 PM
Location: GBCC Chapel [Google® Map]
No need to RSVP
No book or fee required

Phone: 593-3485 (direct line)

Overview:
We will take a deep look into the complicated, mysterious, painful and beautiful dance we call Human relationship.

We will consider not only building relationships, but restoring love and connections with the people who matter most to us.

This series will teach us that no matter how we feel, no matter what is going on, no matter who we are with, we can find our voice when we need to speak with honor and personal integrity, even when the other person behaves badly.

Synopsis
In her most affirming and life-changing book yet, Dr. Harriet Lerner teaches us how to restore love and connection with the people who matter the most. In The Dance of Connection we learn what to say (and not say) when:

  • We need an apology, and the person who has harmed us won't apologize or be accountable.
  • We don't know how to take a conversation to the next level when we feel desperate.
  • We feel worn down by the other person's criticism, negativity, or irresponsible behavior.
  • We have been rejected or cut off, and the other person won't show up for the conversation.
  • We are struggling with staying or leaving, and we don't know our "bottom line."
  • We are convinced that we've tried everything — and nothing changes.

Filled with compelling personal stories and case examples, Lerner outlines bold new "voice lessons" that show us how to speak with honor and personal integrity, even when the other person behaves badly.

Whether we're dealing with a partner, parent, sister, or best friend, The Dance of Connection teaches us how to navigate our most important relationships with clarity, courage, and joyous conviction.

Table of Contents:
Prologue: Back to the Sandbox
Chapter 1 Finding Your Voice
Chapter 2 Voice Lessons from My Father
Chapter 3 Our First Family: Where We Learned
(Not) to Speak
Chapter 4 Should You Share Vulnerability?
Chapter 5 In Praise of Pretending
Chapter 6 Putting Our Parents on the Hot Seat
Chapter 7 Love Can Make You Stupid
Chapter 8 Marriage: Where's Your Bottom Line?
Chapter 9 "I Can't Live With This!" Voicing The Ultimate in Marriage
Chapter 10 Warming Things Up
Chapter 11 Silent Men/Angry Women
Chapter 12 Criticism Is Hard to Take
Chapter 13 An Apology? Don't Hold Your Breath
Chapter 14 Complaining and Negativity: When You Can't Listen Another Minute
Chapter 15 The Sounds of Silence: Finding a Voice When You're Rejected and Cut Off
Epilogue: To Thine Own Self Be True



Saturday Night Discovery Workshops
Saturday
Feb 6
6:30 - 8:30

The Journey to Happiness & Wholeness
A two-hour workshop

Saturday
Feb 13
No Class Today Due to Murder Mystery Dinner & Dance

Saturday
Feb 20, 27
March 6, 13, 20, 27
April 3

April 10 is a make-up date should bad weather be cause to cancel.


Buy 7 Pillars of Health by Don Colbert, MD Online at Christianbook.com

7 Pillars of Health DVD Group Study Series
Curriculum and book by Don Colbert, MD

Facilitator: Scott LaMay

Time: 6:30 - 8:30 PM

Location:
Green Bay Community Church
600 Cardinal Ln


Questions? FoxValleySingles@aol.com or call 676-7243

Dr. Don Colbert believes in combining alternative and traditional medical practices for achieving optimal health. His 50-day plan provides information that will not only change your life but also challenge your thinking and motivate you. Learn how to incorporate his "pillars" into your daily life in a way that will energize you and help you feel better and live longer.

The 7 Pillars are:
  • WATER
  • SLEEP and REST
  • LIVING FOOD
  • EXERCISE
  • DETOXIFICATION
  • NUTRITIONAL SUPPLEMENTS
  • COPING WITH STRESS
Participants are encouraged, but not required, to purchase a 7 Pillars of Health Workbook and 50-day Journal.


Saturday
April 10
May be weather make-up day for 7 Pillars Series
If not needed, topic will be Communication: Silence is not Golden

"The ultimate tragedy is not the oppression and cruelty by the bad people but the silence over that by the good people"
- Martin Luther King

Saturday
April 17


Workshop Topic: The Motivated Mind Part 1
Overview in March
Saturday
April 24

Workshop Topic: The Motivated Mind Part 2
Overview in March
Past Monday Night Singles Discovery Class
Every other week
6:30 - 8:30 PM

2009
Feb 2, 16
March 2, 16
April 13, 27
May 11, 25
Jun 8, 22
July 6,20
August 3, 17, 31
Sept 14, 2009 (final)
Safe People Book Cover


"Safe People"
Based on the book by
Dr. Henry Cloud & Dr. John Townsend


SAFE PEOPLE
and Avoid Those That Aren't

Listen and Download Monday Night Singles Audio

Series starts February 2—September 14, 2009

Overview:
Finding safe people provides the foundation for building healthy, lasting relationships. Countless individuals have invested themselves into people who have shipwrecked their lives. They have been abandoned or taken advantage of, and left with little to show for what they have given. They have lost their sense of security and personal value in the process. If you are one who has chosen the wrong people to get involved with or makes the same mistakes about relationships over and over again, then the Safe People course offers you a remedy. We will offer solid guidance for making safe choices in relationships from friendships to romance. We will help identify the nurturing people we all need in our lives, as well as ones we need to learn to avoid.

Safe People Article


Past Monday Night Singles Discovery Series
Every other Monday
6:30 - 8:30 PM

2009
Jan 5, 19

The One Month To Live book cover


ONE MONTH TO LIVE

Overview:
What if you only had one month to live? How would you make each day meaningful? How would you relate to others differently? What would you do to make the rest of your life really matter?

One Month to Live will challenge you to embrace the life God has entrusted to you and you alone, and to live it out moment by moment with wholehearted authenticity, honesty, and integrity.

Through the use of colorful true stories, and questions for reflection, we will help you examine the core areas inside you that long to be exercised and expressed: how you're made to live passionately, love boldly, learn from your mistakes, and leave a legacy that endures for generations after you're gone.

One Month to Live will give you a greater clarity of purpose and a renewed sense of passion for the things that really matter.



Discover Dating Workshop Series


conscious dating book cover and official website
click to order

Discover Dating Workshop Series
Based on the book by David Steele
'Conscious Dating; Finding the Love of Your Life in Today's World'

Facilitator: Scott LaMay

Dates: TBA (planning for Saturday's February—April
Time: 6:30 - 8:30 PM
Location:

Green Bay Community Church
600 Cardinal Ln


This workshop series will cover dating in-depth but will require some additional reading to benefit from the materials provided.

An important part of this workshop will be voluntary participant interaction and open, candid, discussion.

There is no cost to attend. Book purchase is not required, but encouraged.



Previous Monday Night Singles Discovery Series

Singles—Discover the joy of expressing love,
and feeling truly loved in return!

Overview:
The core message of Gary Chapman's bestselling The Five Love Languages has hit home with over 2 million married people because it focuses on humanity's deep emotional need to feel loved.

When Dr. Chapman began a ministry for single adults in his church, he found that their needs were the same although their circumstances were different. Now, in this book—at their request—Dr. Chapman addresses the situations of singles in personal and professional relationships, and shows how the same five love languages apply.

For single adults and single parents of all ages who want to know how to better express and receive love…for students who would like to improve their relationships with friends and classmates…for business professionals who look for guidance in dealing with colleagues.

Participants can find their own situations mirrored in the real-life stories of people Dr. Chapman has counseled. Singles can learn more about themselves and others with the new "singles" profile and "Questions to Ponder" that conclude each chapter.



Ballroom Dance Lessons
Thursday's

Expressway
Youth Center

Sept 3—Nov 19

Christmas Dance Dec 11
-- a recreation ministry of GBCC

Do you want to learn to jitterbug, fox trot or waltz? Have you ever thought about what it would be like to do the hustle or the swing? Then join us in the Expressway Youth Center from (6:30 for beginner lesson) 7 - 8:30 p.m. any Thursday evening during the months of September, October, and November. The Christmas Ballroom Dance will be on Friday, December 11.

Persons of any age, gender or marital status are welcome as long as you want to have fun! There is a $3.00 suggested donation per person per evening with the money given to support the Youth Center.

"Ultimately the goal of ballroom dance is to build relationships and respect between people. Dance helps us identify and strengthen our roles as men and women," said leader Dale Walton. Dale has been leading dance at GBCC for ten years, with as many as 125 people at a time coming to cha-cha the night away.

You do not have to be a member of GBCC to join the dance ministry. You do not have to come every week in order to catch on to new dance moves, but it is best to be there for the start of the class at 7:00 p.m. You can leave early if you can't stay until 8:30 p.m., but if you miss the beginning, you may have a difficult time catching on.

Call Dale Walton at 469-0949 for more information.



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CURRENT SERIES
Monday's
The Dance of Connection

Saturday's (weekly)
The 7 Pillars of Health

PAST SERIES
Safe People
One Month to Live
Discover Dating
The Five Love Languages

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Ballroom Dance Lessons Thursday's thru March 25
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